More advice on how to handle your man:
In the last episode I covered how men feel about “Wrapping Paper” this month I am here give you relationship advice.
Men (in general) love to be involved in a relationship with the opposite sex. If we are not in a relationship we are searching for a relationship.
At the same time once involved in a relationship we are less concerned with maintaining the relationship than we are with our own satisfaction. (I know women, it sounds typical) But it is how we are wired, once you understand that, the easier you will be able to get along with a man in general.
I would like to say we care about the relationship, but we don’t, we are wired more toward the hunt. It’s thousands of years of evolution you’re fighting here, man is wired from a very basic level to search for the best female to procreate with and spread his seed to better the species. No matter how much of a degenerate he is, or not, sorry.
Now if you wanna corral a man for a long time you need to provide him with the necessary essentials (based on his Cro-Mag-non wiring) for the first 10 years, this is based on if you start the relationship at the age of 25 years, because at 35 the need for man to spread his seed lessens exponentially every year from 1 to 10 in a relationship. By the time you have been involved with him 10 years his resolve has been worn paper-thin, and he has far too much invested to toss you aside for the shapely vixen that can provide 15 minutes of fun. (He has too much to lose) Kids, Mortgage, car payments, his favorite dog, not to mention all the crap he has collected that is in the house or in a storage unit miles away. We ain’t stupid, just simple minded. (Note 60% of men, and 40% of
Many a woman has tried to change a man to her liking, and vice-versa for men. This will never work. If you live long enough to be married as long as I have you will find that you cannot change your mate, you can only change yourself to accommodate your mate. If this is not what you interested in, then you need to find a new mate. I know that sounds cut and dry, but if this is the case it “is” cut and dry when it comes to your prolonged happiness, you cannot continue something that does not keep you happy.
women have an affair)How do you find this kind of happiness?
Believe me, it take many years of happiness, and misery. NO relationship is perfect, and if it feels that it is, just wait, it will all turn to shit soon enough. It is the patience, and perseverance, that makes the relationship work.
You have to understand that no two people (of the opposite sex) can co-habituate together for any length of time with-out issues popping up. It is resolving those issues that completes the cycle of a relationship. Falling love is easy, staying in love is something truly special.
Now , a few of you know, if it wasn’t for one thing in a relationship with a woman I would be gay, and it ain’t because of cooking, because I can cook better than most. Any man knows how easy it would be to have a relationship with another man if sex wasn’t involved.
“Hay Dude wanna watch the game?”
“Hell yeah, mind if I run to the store for some beer, chips, and bean dip!”
“No, sounds like a great idea!”
Another example;
“What the hell is this laundry doing on the floor?”
“Well the bra on the lamp belongs to someone else, and the underwear, and socks are stored there until I have time to take care of it”
“Cool, no prob, I was just wondering if some of that was mine.”
I could go on, but there is no point. Women and Men will struggle to co-exist for as long as time goes on, get use to it. Women are Bitches, and Men are Bastards. There is no way around it, and know this, hatred does not exist outside of marriage. You have to really know someone to really hate them, otherwise you’re just irritated.
